Divorce, seeking support

My wife and I have been married for almost 18 years, we have two wonderful children: a boy of 10 years old and a girl of 5 years old. She told me the other day that she didn't love me the way a wife should love her husband. I know a lot of it is my fault because I never listened to it, I only heard it. Recently she went to a family psychologist and decided to leave, https://onlinedivorcer.com/utah-divorce-online. After the divorce in court, I took the boy for myself, and she took the girl. Help in the comments morally